What is an orgasm? An orgasm is a physical and/or emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation and activity. It usually results from stimulation of the sexual organ and other sensitive areas of the body. Orgasms in males are usually accompanied by ejaculation.
Of course, most of us have had an orgasm. At the height of sexual excitement, in hot passion, overflowing with emotions, that sensation that overcomes you—an orgasm. But have you ever had an orgasm in without any direct sexual stimuli? Without any fondling, kissing, foreplay?
Achieving An Orgasm Without Direct Sexual Contact
Surprisingly, there are few men that can orgasm without direct sexual contact. Though for most men, direct sexual contact and stimulation are necessary, or else the penis cannot remain erect and perform properly. To this end, a large number of women are able to achieve orgasm through sexual stimulation and foreplay—including kissing, nipple play, oral play, and other non-sexual methods. In fact, an increasing number of women prefer this method of orgasm. Nevertheless, there are some couples that seem to defy everything we know.
A couple from Texas say that they can both have intense, full-body climaxes by merely holding one another tightly. In essence, by hugging, or cuddling. In other instances, they claim that they have such a close connection. If one of them has an orgasm in the same room, the other will climax as well, even if they are not touching.
Achieving An Orgasm Through Tantra
47-year-old Scott McClure and his 33-year-old wife Melanie say that they can do this not instinctively but through the practice of tantra. The couple uses breathing techniques, touch, and embrace, to bring each other to the dizzying heights of ecstasy repeatedly. Tantra is a sensual experience, which combines different sounds and tastes. Tantra can also include intercourse. However, in this case, it is the non-intercourse related orgasms that are unique—and they do not only have them with each other.
Scott claims that through the practice of tantra, both he and his wife can have orgasms with others, without sexual any contact. At one point on their journey, they went camping, and each had an orgasm after several bolts of lightning struck near their camp. Relates Melanie “It’s so joyful and incredible when you start living in the orgasmic state that we do as a couple.” Not only can they both orgasm in unique ways, they also claim that through Tantra their orgasms can last up to two to three hours each time!
The McClures are so invested in what they believe that they have opened up their own Tantra studio. Scott says that he first learned the practice about twenty years ago. At the time he was suffering from premature ejaculation. He used Tantric practices, he says, to overcome the problem. Including mindfulness techniques during all phases of lovemaking, breathing techniques, and even visualizations focused around manifesting your own sexual energy for different purposes. It is important to note that lovemaking does not simply involve sex.
If you find you are dealing with premature ejaculation, know that sometimes the condition can be due to a health problem or a certain medication. Therefore, although Tantra may help, it is important to see a doctor to learn viable treatment options. Premature ejaculation is hardly anything to be embarrassed about, and most of all, it is curable.